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A collection of the best chastity punishments/tips my boy and I have found from sources across the internet.

Feel free to add any!

Tips:

• At first your guy will want to go IN the the chastity cage. REAL chastity starts the moment he wants OUT.

• He will either beg to be OUT because he has a biological need to come, OR he'll beg to be out because he CAN'T STAND THE TEASING. You want the latter.

• When he begs, punish him. (See below). If he begs too much, ignore him. 

• Punish him often.

• YOU are in charge at all times.

Punishments/Tasks:

• Take his cage off and make him hold a penny against the wall using his erect cock for a certain period of time. This will force him to keep himself hard. Set consequences for if the penny falls.

• He gets a very short window to bring himself to orgasm while you watch (1-2 mins?). The chastity belt goes back on at the end whether he succeeds or not.

• Make him get you off with his tongue.

• Instead of a promised orgasm, he has to edge instead and thank you at the end as if he had an orgasm.

• Lengthen the time he has to wear the chastity cage.

• Forbid him from mentioning the cage for a certain amount of time.

• Warn him about a severe punishment if he orgasms, then tie him down and ride him until he does. Proceed with the punishment.

• Have him start a chastity blog or twitter account. He can come once at 50 followers, once at 100 followers, once at 200 followers, etc.

• During the time when he is permitted to orgasm, position his body so that he can’t prevent himself from coming on himself. For example, make him lie on his back and put his knees on the wall behind him so that his cock points down at his chest, neck, and face.

• If you are on top and he comes, keep going. The sensory overload is really overpowering. Even though it feels great, it’s a good “mean” thing to do to him.

• Promise to buy new sex toys or do something he likes, but only if he agrees to more time in chastity.

• Chain a heavy weight to his chastity belt for a while, giving him something he either has to drag by his balls or deal with as he does other tasks for you.

• Edging is the practice of bringing someone very close to the point of orgasm and then backing off. It’s usually done repeatedly, which both increases sexual need and results in the closest thing to multiple orgasms for a man. You can force your Slave to edge himself a few times to increase his sexual need.

• Give him a "blowjob" with his cage on.

• Sext him. Don't overcomplicate it. Include pictures of the key if you want. If you're shy or busy, google some porn pics and send him those instead. There are plenty of images if you google image search "chastity captions" that will drive him wild.  

• Take away his right to speak for a while. Use a ball gag or tape if necessary.

• Tie his ankles to his wrists. Then tie his elbows to his knees. Last, pull his cock and balls behind his legs and tie his legs together so that they are trapped down by his butt. Now you have full access to the genitals. Torture them for a while.

• Make him pick a few punishments he would rather not be forced to undergo and then draw one randomly

• Let him out of his cage. He has to become hard, become soft, and become hard again –> Add a time-limit to complete this task to make it harder. Add multiple rounds to make it harder still.

• Pick a 1-2 hour period of time where he must be prepared to come at any time within 30 seconds of your command. If he can't, he goes back in chastity for a length of time you choose. If you don't issue the command, he'll have edged himself effectively for 1-2 hours.

• Use a sharpie to write/draw humiliating things on/near his cock/cage.

• Set a certain amount of cumulative time for him to remain erect without touching himself to earn an award.

• Go to a bar and pretend you don't know him. Make him watch you flirt with someone you think is cute. Extra bonus points for dressing provocatively.

• Set an orgasm ratio such as 10:1 or 5:1. You get more orgasms than him.

• Put a leash on his neck or cock and make him your obedient pet.  

• Put him in a lot of pain by slapping at his balls with a ruler or squeezing them (or similar).

• Roll a dice. If there dice is even, give him a 1 minute blowjob or hand job. If the dice is odd, torture his balls instead (slapping, kicking, twisting, etc). Roll over and over until he comes or begs you to stop. Tie him to the bed or a chair for best results. An easy way to end the game before he comes without hurting him too bad is to squeeze his balls increasingly harder until he begs.

• Make him write you an erotic poem or letter.

• Blindfold him.

• Don't "ask" him to do something. Tell him. "Make me a cup of tea." "I want you to paint the den this weekend." "I expect you in the bedroom, naked and on your knees in 3 minutes."  

• Take every opportunity to flash him while he is in chastity. 

• Insist he thank you for disciplining him. 

• Watch a porn video and reenact what you see the best you can regardless of the fact that his cock is locked.

• Give him a blowjob that gets increasingly slow, or one that gets increasingly fast and then abruptly ends. Back in the cage!

• Make him share a non-personally-identifiable picture of his locked cock online. For extra humiliation, solicit comments and then make him read them aloud to you.

• Solicit "come tributes" online. Make him watch them.

• Make him do exercises (jumping jacks, leg spreads, squats,aerobics...) while naked. 

• Buy a cheap blow up sex doll and make him fuck it while you laugh at him.

• Have him tie a long string or rope to his balls, cage, or cock like a leash. Have him sit next to you while you relax, watch tv, or play games. Tug the string constantly to remind him who owns his cock.

• Place a vibrating dildo against his cage. Or give him one and instruct him to tease himself in the same way.

• Have him wear a buttplug.

• Talk dirty to him right before you go to bed.

• Make him jealous. Describe a guy you think is sexy.

• Make him describe every sexual thought he has throughout the day. You can tell if he's lying if you don't receive very frequent, very detailed admissions.

• Make him wear a ball gag

• He must practice kissing a chosen body part. The more disobedient he has been, the longer he has to practice.

• Instead of a simple kiss, you can make a complicated series of kisses that he has to get right every time.

• You can put a blindfold on him before he kisses. If he misses the spot, he gets punished.

• Ridicule his dick size. Insult him about how small it is. 

• Make him do an online scavenger hunt for pictures of cocks that are bigger and better than his own. Review his entries while you belittle him and glorify the pics he's found.

• Put him in a strange position (standing on one leg, doing a head stand, etc) and have him edge/masturbate himself.

• Fair is fair. Make him real desperate, then tell him you'll let him out of his cage and let him give you a facial if he gives himself one. Watch him come all over his own face. TIP: if you do this, make sure he's gone a few days without coming so that his first cumshot is big, white, gooey, and desperate. Receive your "facial" immediately after from his empty cock.

• Make him stay naked while you are clothed.

• Have him find another kinky couple (or individual) online to help you dominate him.

• Make him kneel in front of you and jerk off.

• Don’t let him come properly. Make him get to the point of no return and then take his hand off as he begins to spurt. 

• Deny him the right to touch himself and instead make him sit on his hands and watch as you enjoy a nice, long orgasm.

• Go to a webcam site where you can watch a man masturbate live (chaturbate.com). Comment about how much hotter, bigger and better the webcammer is.

• Browse to the site omegle.com and be randomly connected to a stranger's webcam. Help that stranger jerk off while he watches. You don't have to get nude for this to work.

• Make him watch porn that includes intense orgasms while wearing his cage.

• Make him watch porn that includes intense orgasms while free of his cage, but not allowed to touch himself.

• Make him edge himself to porn.

• Put porn on the tv on loop so that he's always reminded of it.

• Give him a humiliating but aggressive goal such as "learn to deepthroat this dildo". Later, you can tease him about this skill. It will be an embarrassing little secret.

• Add chores to his chore list.

• Have him get a lifelike rubber dildo and then let him show you how he sucks dick. Make him practice for hours while you watch tv. Be sure to tell him how stupid he looks and what a good little cock sucking whore he is becoming.  

• Make him shave all his public hair. Compare his package to the likeness of a 10 year old boy.

• Have him walk around the house naked in his cage.

• Make him take all his clothes of every day after 8:00 pm.

• Walk around the house in your underwear.

• Have him describe how he'd like his dick sucked (fast. Slow, teasing, deepthroat, etc) then make him demonstrate by sucking a strapon dildo while you're wearing it.

• Tell him you'll let him out of his cage and have sex with him, but first you need a demonstration. Wear a strapon dildo and have sex twice. Once with him caged, servicing your "cock". Then a second time with you mimicking the quality of his performance on him.

• Give him a lapdance while he's still in his cage.

  
  

  • order him to dry you up after you shower

  • order him to wait for you on his knees in the bathroom while you shower

  • order him to paint your toes (make him restart and punish him by pegging him if he does a poor job)

  • order him to paint his own toes

  • tell him that you're not in the mood but you're nice enough to let him cum. Allow him to masturbate. Once he is finished, have him clean himself up and then start playing with yourself with a dildo.

  • order him to jerk off to porn

  • order him to jerk off to gay porn while you humiliate him

  • allow him to find used condoms or open condom wrappers in the trash

  • dress him up in stockings

  • buy him an inflatable butt plug and document how many pumps he can take in chart

  • give him a pet name that's not very masculine

  • depending on your level of comfort with this, order him to clean you up with his tongue after going to the bathroom to pee

  • pee on him the next time you have a shower together

  • while he's in chastity, lock his cage up to the radiator. Use this time to play with yourself

  • make him wear a condom while having sex with you

  • make him call himself names and humiliate himself verbally

  • compare his dick to your toys

  • have him practice oral on your toys

  • have him eat his cum every time you have sex and call it his reward

  • remove his right to pee standing up (punish him with 24h in chastity every time he breaks this rule, and reward him by allowing him to stand up to pee for one occasion if he makes you cum with his own dick)

  • text him when you're on your way home from being out so he can prepare for your arrival by being naked and in chastity for your arrival